2010-10-05, 03:38 PM
Then we'll have to remain in disagreement.
Most problems are universally irrelevant. Most issues are minor transient things that fade. Some people recognize this and persevere, others are crushed by the minutia and the universe marches on regardless.
Everyone's problems are relevant to them. That's the whole point of perspective. Being incapable of putting the rest of the world in perspective results in things like this.
I find it interesting that you instantly correlate drama queen to being selfish when the two are not mutually exclusive. Oprah's a drama queen who loves to give after all.
As for helping them, irrelevant. You can't help them when they're already gone, you can't help them when they're hiding from you, you can't help them when they don't know enough to want help. Everyone comes into themselves in their own time and some people just don't make it. We learn from the failures and avoid repeating their mistakes. Being critical of them is part of life.
Most problems are universally irrelevant. Most issues are minor transient things that fade. Some people recognize this and persevere, others are crushed by the minutia and the universe marches on regardless.
Everyone's problems are relevant to them. That's the whole point of perspective. Being incapable of putting the rest of the world in perspective results in things like this.
I find it interesting that you instantly correlate drama queen to being selfish when the two are not mutually exclusive. Oprah's a drama queen who loves to give after all.
As for helping them, irrelevant. You can't help them when they're already gone, you can't help them when they're hiding from you, you can't help them when they don't know enough to want help. Everyone comes into themselves in their own time and some people just don't make it. We learn from the failures and avoid repeating their mistakes. Being critical of them is part of life.