2010-05-06, 02:47 PM
(This post was last modified: 2010-05-06, 03:03 PM by Doctor Omega.)
I mean, don't misunderstand me. I feel very sympathetic for her, and like I said, if I could help her in any way, I'd definitely try. However, on the same side of that token, after thinking about it a little more and comparing her feelings to my own relationship, I recant what I said about her sending the picture of herself topless to her husband. Putting myself in her shoes changed my perspective a bit. While there were lots of different, safer ways she could have transmitted that picture, Sarah is actually right. I'm an engaged man of 25 years, and I can tell you that if I had to go extended periods of time without being intimate with Bec, I don't know what I'd do. I'd probably lose my mind. So, getting a similar picture from Bec would actually be very, very nice. Married couples do stuff like that, only most of the time it's in person when they're making love. One solid, solid aspect of a flourishing marriage is being sexual with each other, in what ever way is available. But, like I said, the medium she used to transmit that photo was a little silly.
She's dumb for using an untrusted app, but her sending a topless picture of herself to her husband does not make her a whore. The only reason people are calling her a whore is because the picture got plastered all over the fucking internet. I'd be willing to bet (and I could very well be wrong) that she wouldn't have ever posted pictures like that on the web on purpose. So, calling her a whore based on the malicious actions of sick fucks on the internet is asinine. Her sending that picture, thinking it was going only to her husband only shows that she's a woman who loves her husband, and nothing more.
I honestly had no idea what to say to this, originally. Just because she sent a topless picture to her husband, that means she's in a bad marriage and it's going to end? While the divorce rate in the USA is still over 50%, this statement made me laugh. It all goes back to people thinking she's a whore because the picture got posted to the internet. She sent the damned picture, sure, and she did so rather irresponsibly, and now she's having to live with the ramifications of her mistake. But, to assume whorish tendencies and a failed marriage based on one picture is fucking ludicrous. >_>
She's dumb for using an untrusted app, but her sending a topless picture of herself to her husband does not make her a whore. The only reason people are calling her a whore is because the picture got plastered all over the fucking internet. I'd be willing to bet (and I could very well be wrong) that she wouldn't have ever posted pictures like that on the web on purpose. So, calling her a whore based on the malicious actions of sick fucks on the internet is asinine. Her sending that picture, thinking it was going only to her husband only shows that she's a woman who loves her husband, and nothing more.
Yotsuba Wrote:Oh boy, I wonder what her reaction would have been like when they break up and her hubby posts her photos instead. Not that this happens all the time obviously, but it's a very likely scenario.
I honestly had no idea what to say to this, originally. Just because she sent a topless picture to her husband, that means she's in a bad marriage and it's going to end? While the divorce rate in the USA is still over 50%, this statement made me laugh. It all goes back to people thinking she's a whore because the picture got posted to the internet. She sent the damned picture, sure, and she did so rather irresponsibly, and now she's having to live with the ramifications of her mistake. But, to assume whorish tendencies and a failed marriage based on one picture is fucking ludicrous. >_>