2009-07-27, 03:19 PM
xpimnoob Wrote:when i said teach them a lesson, it wasn't like punish them. you learned something out of your experience. you learned how to tell a douchebag from a good guy. in my opinion, that's a very valuable skill.
An abusive relationship is not exactly a classroom learning experience. Girl might get raped, guy might get nabbed in marriage or relationship by a golddigger who steals his money, (I personally lost 10,000 dollars in such a relationship after being with the goldigger only 2 weeks,) a person might even be physically injured or killed, (such as getting together with a gangbanger guy.)
Those are not "learning experiences," those are more like "catastrophes." Tons and tons of people end up married to such scum for LIFE, and the abuse spreads to their family and offspring, and others find a good person only after being in many bad relationships.