There's no rules to anything in friendship or romance. If it happens and is successful, it happens and is successful. The particulars are always different.
-A nice, gentle girl meets a good kind boy, they fall in love because they're so good to each other and eventually get married.
-A barslut meets a womanizer, they have great sex for 6 months and get married
because of that.
On paper, the events are the same, but once you dive into particulars there's no similarities. The second example IS a marriage, but there are more likely to be complications such as divorce or cheating. Friendship is the same. The "friendship" in the movie Goodfellas can be called that, but it's much different than a normal friendshipt hat started at the age of 3. Some people view their friends as patsies to be used and eventually discarded, (we all know some of those.) A friendship like that is not the same as with a guy that is a genuinely good person and eventually becomes like a brother to you.
-A nice, gentle girl meets a good kind boy, they fall in love because they're so good to each other and eventually get married.
-A barslut meets a womanizer, they have great sex for 6 months and get married
because of that.
On paper, the events are the same, but once you dive into particulars there's no similarities. The second example IS a marriage, but there are more likely to be complications such as divorce or cheating. Friendship is the same. The "friendship" in the movie Goodfellas can be called that, but it's much different than a normal friendshipt hat started at the age of 3. Some people view their friends as patsies to be used and eventually discarded, (we all know some of those.) A friendship like that is not the same as with a guy that is a genuinely good person and eventually becomes like a brother to you.