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Is it offensive?
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Shidoshi Wrote:Your statement basically translates to "I only like your superficial traits" which is pretty bad. It's similar to saying you like someone just because of their looks.
I found myself having this conversation with my closest friend a couple of weeks ago and we both came to the conclusion that we are both superficial to varying degrees. It's one thing to not like an individual as a person, but a completely separate (and reasonably so), issue to not like someone because of their appearance. I know for instance that I couldn't be in a relationship with someone who is overweight. Not because I don't like them personality wise, but because their appearance just wouldn't appeal to me in that way. The same could be said of personality. I couldn't be in a relationship with someone who just drives me crazy all of the time because I couldn't wake up to that everyday.

And whenever I say this (especially to girls, omg) I get an earful over it. Is it so bad just to say, "I don't find you attractive"? Appearances are just another element of relationships to be considered.
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Is it offensive? - by Words - 2012-03-10, 11:52 PM
Is it offensive? - by Moonlapse - 2012-03-11, 12:00 AM
Is it offensive? - by Corn - 2012-03-11, 12:12 AM
Is it offensive? - by BlueRuin - 2012-03-11, 12:14 AM
Is it offensive? - by Sarah - 2012-03-11, 12:26 AM
Is it offensive? - by Words - 2012-03-11, 12:51 AM
Is it offensive? - by Corn - 2012-03-11, 12:54 AM
Is it offensive? - by Sarah - 2012-03-11, 01:13 AM
Is it offensive? - by Words - 2012-03-11, 05:24 AM
Is it offensive? - by SaptaZapta - 2012-03-11, 06:59 AM
Is it offensive? - by Shidoshi - 2012-03-12, 06:52 AM
Is it offensive? - by Words - 2012-03-13, 11:10 PM
Is it offensive? - by Haseo - 2012-03-15, 07:08 AM
Is it offensive? - by Words - 2012-03-15, 10:17 PM
Is it offensive? - by Sardines - 2012-03-15, 10:44 PM
Is it offensive? - by Words - 2012-03-15, 11:42 PM
Is it offensive? - by DrRusty - 2012-03-16, 01:02 PM
Is it offensive? - by ImagineAll - 2012-03-16, 02:14 PM
Is it offensive? - by KhainiWest - 2012-03-16, 02:23 PM
Is it offensive? - by Sarah - 2012-03-16, 03:25 PM

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