2011-05-20, 06:59 AM
Khoi Wrote:Changing the context and situation around a bit. What if she had sex with the 2nd guy?
What if she had sex with the entire football team in the middle of the stadium for a crowd of roaring fans?
There's a rather large degree of difference between the two acts. Considering the average adult has sex with at least 5 partners before marrying and a lifetime of 11.
Your scenario fails to mention key points like whether or not this occurred while she was with guy #1.
It's entirely possible for a girl to have been seeing guy #2 during college, been madly in love with him but separated by them working in different parts of the country when college ends, find guy #1 a couple years later where she ends up, and guy #2 (who was really "first" from his own perspective) moves into her area for some reason and runs back into her.
Did their feelings magically go away because they'd met other people during that time?
The problem with threads like these in a forum like this is too many of the participants are too young to have any real perspective on the situation beyond gut reactions and things that've been drilled into them by culture.
It's not having what you want - It's wanting what you've got.