What's the best server in your opinion?

Well, Scania might (yes, might) be able to fit some of what you are looking for, it has too much people (Depends how you like it, + or -), too many guilds bossing (so much that we all get in each other's way/crash or hack each other + or -), too much hacking (-), too much inflation (Neutral for you), and very high possibilities for full buddy list since there is much people on always (+).