2010-10-02, 12:02 AM
It's almost the same as being in a straight relationship.
What I first did was become their friend and later down the road, I came out to them. Either they'll do the same or they'll say they're straight.
If you know they have a boyfriend, leave it at that. If they don't and they're your type, then go for it. Sometimes, they don't actually like you at first, but never fear because with time can come crushes. From my experiences, NEVER stick yourself on one person who won't be your boyfriend. You're going to be stuck on them until they flat out tell you or something awkward happens.
I'm probably not the best person to speak about this with but yeah, it does suck when someone you like doesn't like you (or vise-versa) and with a busted gaydar, it makes gay relationships that much harder to start. I've always thought that gays have it harder when it comes to relationships because you have to weed out the girls from the guys, then gays from the straights. Then with that crowd, you have to find one you like AND one that has interest in you.
It's all trial and error, my friend. Just because it's hard (no pun intended), doesn't make it impossible.
What I first did was become their friend and later down the road, I came out to them. Either they'll do the same or they'll say they're straight.
If you know they have a boyfriend, leave it at that. If they don't and they're your type, then go for it. Sometimes, they don't actually like you at first, but never fear because with time can come crushes. From my experiences, NEVER stick yourself on one person who won't be your boyfriend. You're going to be stuck on them until they flat out tell you or something awkward happens.
I'm probably not the best person to speak about this with but yeah, it does suck when someone you like doesn't like you (or vise-versa) and with a busted gaydar, it makes gay relationships that much harder to start. I've always thought that gays have it harder when it comes to relationships because you have to weed out the girls from the guys, then gays from the straights. Then with that crowd, you have to find one you like AND one that has interest in you.
It's all trial and error, my friend. Just because it's hard (no pun intended), doesn't make it impossible.