How to tell a girl that you want only to stay as friends?

That bolded line won't work. A stubborn lady will insist that she doesn't mind. Remember, shes kinda head over heels.


@Omni - why do you keep "haha-ing"? Obviously, I don't know how you sound irl, but it -can- give her a false impression. For example, she might think one of the things that're great about you is that you laugh at everything she says. (just an example).


Personally, I'm the type who gets guilty over making someone feel like crap. Even if they did deserve it. So in these situations, I typically just cold shoulder/shun them. Giving them polite attention isn't doing its job. So I act like they're starting to become a pain in the ass (by making my irritation clear).

I laugh to give her an impression that maybe I am bored or un-interested, guess it's doing the opposite. I saw her today, and we talked here and there, then she suggested that I cuddle with her. So I'm like "Heh. Sure?", and she was putting her head on my shoulder. Pretty damn positive she likes me now. Like, super-positive.