2010-03-09, 12:19 AM
Quality Time, apparently.
However, I think that profile quiz is flawed. If you are in a relationship, it doesn't really ask about your "Love Language", but a combination of your own and your significant other.
I mean, many of the statements you're supposed to agree or disagree with are of the form "I love it when my spouse does X" - but what if s/he doesn't? My primary language might be Gifts, but if my spouse never brings me any, how can I select "I still get excited opening a gift from my spouse"? Or it might be Physical Touch, but I can't truthfully say "I love that my husband can't keep his hands off me" because, unfortunately, he can and does...
Anyway, they should make it clear one should try to answer the questions as if they were hypothetical ("I would love for my spouse to do X") about your perfect dream-spouse, not factual questions about your current partner.
However, I think that profile quiz is flawed. If you are in a relationship, it doesn't really ask about your "Love Language", but a combination of your own and your significant other.
I mean, many of the statements you're supposed to agree or disagree with are of the form "I love it when my spouse does X" - but what if s/he doesn't? My primary language might be Gifts, but if my spouse never brings me any, how can I select "I still get excited opening a gift from my spouse"? Or it might be Physical Touch, but I can't truthfully say "I love that my husband can't keep his hands off me" because, unfortunately, he can and does...
Anyway, they should make it clear one should try to answer the questions as if they were hypothetical ("I would love for my spouse to do X") about your perfect dream-spouse, not factual questions about your current partner.