2010-03-02, 03:10 AM
1) Your age?
20. Male, also, though i doubt thats needed.
2) Do you plan on getting married?
No. I do not believe in marriage. I've seen relationships that last, ones that don't, ones where one party is being used and taken advantage of, and one where one party is controlling and abusive.
3) Are you going to have any sort of cohabitation?
If i manage to meet someone with whom i share enough of an interest in, as well as interests overall, then eventually id consider it. I wouldnt mind living with someone, but i dont need to. I myself dont like being around a lot of people, and that plays out rather ironically mentally. but thats not why i can see myself living with someone else, its because i need something to occupy myself with. A human to converse with, an animal/pet to play with and keep me company, a human that can do that as well, and just something/someone that can distract me from me. Ive been alone and reserved, shut away to my own devices for as long as i can remember. barely asking anyone for help, not speaking up for myself, speaking out against what i felt was wrong, many things. im starting to change some aspects, but others just will remain and endure. But, throughout all that; I dont like being lonely. no one does.
4) Do you think cohabitation helps to avoid divorces, or increase the chances of divorce? Explain why.
They do neither/nor. Divorces occur for a multitude of reasons, and living with another person may or may not have anything to do with that outcome.
5) Do you think love is essential for marriage? Explain why.
Not at all. Arranged marriages still exist to this day, proving that.
6) Do you plan on having children? If so, why, and how many?
Not of my own. I plan to adopt maybe one or two children. Id prefer to adopt a brother and a sister, if i could, because i would hate splitting a family apart. But i do not want children of my own. I dont feel like raising and bringing another life into this world, when there exist so many lives that are hollow and devoid of parenting. Being shuttled from one home to the next, being treated as an object instead of a human being; I want to change that for at least one kid. Show them that the world may be a pomegranate-infested cess pool rotting under its own decay, but even in that disgusting mess there is still a glimmer of hope.
20. Male, also, though i doubt thats needed.
2) Do you plan on getting married?
No. I do not believe in marriage. I've seen relationships that last, ones that don't, ones where one party is being used and taken advantage of, and one where one party is controlling and abusive.
3) Are you going to have any sort of cohabitation?
If i manage to meet someone with whom i share enough of an interest in, as well as interests overall, then eventually id consider it. I wouldnt mind living with someone, but i dont need to. I myself dont like being around a lot of people, and that plays out rather ironically mentally. but thats not why i can see myself living with someone else, its because i need something to occupy myself with. A human to converse with, an animal/pet to play with and keep me company, a human that can do that as well, and just something/someone that can distract me from me. Ive been alone and reserved, shut away to my own devices for as long as i can remember. barely asking anyone for help, not speaking up for myself, speaking out against what i felt was wrong, many things. im starting to change some aspects, but others just will remain and endure. But, throughout all that; I dont like being lonely. no one does.
4) Do you think cohabitation helps to avoid divorces, or increase the chances of divorce? Explain why.
They do neither/nor. Divorces occur for a multitude of reasons, and living with another person may or may not have anything to do with that outcome.
5) Do you think love is essential for marriage? Explain why.
Not at all. Arranged marriages still exist to this day, proving that.
6) Do you plan on having children? If so, why, and how many?
Not of my own. I plan to adopt maybe one or two children. Id prefer to adopt a brother and a sister, if i could, because i would hate splitting a family apart. But i do not want children of my own. I dont feel like raising and bringing another life into this world, when there exist so many lives that are hollow and devoid of parenting. Being shuttled from one home to the next, being treated as an object instead of a human being; I want to change that for at least one kid. Show them that the world may be a pomegranate-infested cess pool rotting under its own decay, but even in that disgusting mess there is still a glimmer of hope.