So my fiance is joining the Air Force.

You'd like that, wouldn't you Prov? My nakie hubby is for my eyes only!

And um. First child will be named Kevin if it's a boy, Athena if it's a girl.

Learn to share!

Athena's a lovely name. As far as "Kevin" goes, are you satisfied with it or did you have other ideas for a boy's name? I understand lineage and legacy is important to many people, but I think compromises could be made. My dad had wanted to name me Joseph after my grandfather; after discussing it with my mom, he settled on keeping Joseph for my middle name.

That's not to say Kevin isn't a good name, though; I like it. I just always thought having two of the same names in the immediate family could be confusing, though mebbe pet names solve it.