2009-09-22, 06:36 PM
Throws Wrote:We're currently making plans for our wedding. It will be a small affair, since that's all we can afford at the moment, and his auntie offered to let us have the ceremony in her backyard. His dad is offering to cater (hooray Hawaiian food!) I actually love the idea of a small backyard wedding. We can have a huge celebration for the extended family, friends, etc. in a few years and renew our vows or something like that. Planning our wedding is actually one of the few things that I enjoy about him making this decision.
So no, leaving him is not an option.
That's good news, then. Has he actually talked with a recruiter, or is he just really considering it seriously? I know that when you talk to the recruiters they can pretty much tell you what they need/ what you would qualify for. With that information, you should know for sure if he will be travelling or stationed somewhere here doing "at home" work. As in, my friend in the airforce does computer work for the Air Force in FL. He will never leave that base and he will never be in a plane of any sort for his work.