2009-09-22, 06:22 PM
The military provides for a better future, so look forward to that. Time, just give it time. He can get a secure job, benefits, and more schooling. If you marry him then you can get a house, and live on a military base and get all those benefits. So just realize that this is all a sacrifice for a better future. If you've been engaged for so long, and can keep up a relationship over the distance as you have, then I believe you can stick it out through this and you will have a happy, healthy, strong marriage. And ultimately, provide for your children in any way that they need, because you and your future husband have cemented your futures on a strong foundation.
Also, you can feel pretty secure about his life in the Air Force. They usually aren't the ones doing the fighting.
Also, you can feel pretty secure about his life in the Air Force. They usually aren't the ones doing the fighting.