2013-07-26, 07:27 PM
FrozNlite Wrote:Better than making a scene: ignoring her completely. Treat her like she doesn't exist. As they say, the only thing worse than hatred is indifference. The best part is, it's healing for you in the long run as you forget about her and move on, and she realizes quick and hard just how much she screwed up in abusing your friendship.
I mean I don't think you're completely free of blame in hearing you did something to make her think you were guilting her into a relationship, so don't ignore her to feel vindicated, do it because you're just literally indifferent to her existence, which first requires a conscious and solid resolve to move on.
KhainiWest Wrote:I disagree, you let her know that she's a b`itch for even having the audacity to consider using you for petty sh`it like that. Though I'm a lot more spiteful, but I'd straight up tell her after hearing that, she doesn't even deserve a friendship, and if you wanted a gold diggin manipulating wh`ore that you can do better than that.
Haha, I will mostly ignore her. If she were to seek me out though, I plan on telling her to go elsewhere and that she is beneath me.
The part about guilting her, I feel its about the fact that I basically just asked her for a chance, and gave examples of those around us where chances should have been given, or they were given. It wasnt really to make her feel guilty, but more so that she would be considerate of the feelings, which if she was straightforward about the whole using part, and she wasnt leading me on with it, wouldnt have come up. I know I hold some blame in the whole matter, but I blame myself mostly for letting this bullshit go on for so long.