2013-07-26, 03:46 PM
Sn1perJohnE Wrote:I havnt posted here in a while, mainly because my laptop is still not usable. Got a new charger for it, and it still wont charge, so its the laptop charging port itself X_X
Beyond that, training for work is finally over, but next week on Wednesday RA training start, and my social life officially ends for at least a month.
Went to Yosemite last week and had an exhaustive vacation, full of hikes, waterfalls, giant sequoia trees, and caves.
Also, I am through dealing with the peach I've been trying to date. I tried to fix our friendship and she starts complaining that I tried to guilt her into a relationship, and that just talking to me over text messages was upsetting her. Afterwards, one of my other friends told me that one night when they were working together on some math homework, and I had called her to see if she wanted anything from McDonalds, that after she hung up with me, she told my friend that I was annoying. My friend asked her "you know he likes you right?", she replied with yes but she didnt want to date me, my friend told her she should tell me that she didnt want to date me, and she replied with "well, I like using him though"...
Im beyond tempted to peach her out if I see her while I am working.
Better than making a scene: ignoring her completely. Treat her like she doesn't exist. As they say, the only thing worse than hatred is indifference. The best part is, it's healing for you in the long run as you forget about her and move on, and she realizes quick and hard just how much she screwed up in abusing your friendship.
I mean I don't think you're completely free of blame in hearing you did something to make her think you were guilting her into a relationship, so don't ignore her to feel vindicated, do it because you're just literally indifferent to her existence, which first requires a conscious and solid resolve to move on.