After nearly ten years together, my husband and I are now separated. AMA

What did you question or trust issues in particular? Talking to other girls? Late nights?

Yes.

I was horribly insecure about him talking to other females, in particular his co-workers. I accused him of the most outrageous things with no evidence whatsoever. He is damn good looking and I am insecure in my appearance, I always thought that it would be so easy for him to hook up with whoever he wanted and leave me behind. Even though he is a good guy, it was hard for me to believe that there wasn't a scummy side to him that he was hiding from me.

It was often hard for me to accept what he said at face value; I frequently questioned whether he had a hidden agenda or was keeping secrets from me.

Since you want more questions, what is your favorite way to relax?

What Ben said, and reading on the couch with my dog curled up next to me.