2012-11-07, 12:16 PM
Razmos Wrote:Well it was either friendzone myself or be an insensitive plantain trying to move in on him when he needed a friend. He still hasn't said he doesn't like me, just that he likes things the way they are. I'm going to give him some time to think things through and then I'll get us to talk about this.
Maybe it was just too soon, but he said he was over it, plus he was purposefully trying to make me jealous by considering experimenting with a french girl, or mentioning a guy in Sweden that he wants to go out with, people were flirting with him all over the damn place and I didn't want to miss my chance with him now, especially since he was actually being quite flirty, and we were spending nearly all of our time together in increasingly sweet ways.
I just don't pineappleing get it.
I kind of disagree with pancake, the thing is, the temptation has always been there, and it's been what 2 months, during previous relationship? In a different light you did do the right thing. You put it out there, now you just have to explain yourself in a legitimate way. Explain your frustrations and that the friendship is in fact more important to you than banging him. The chemistry is clearly there and you became anxious. That's all. Relationship's start with friendships.
Give him time to cool off, tell him you want to talk, apologize, calmly and just explain that frustration that you explain to us. Minus the whole genocide part. I'm pretty skeptical of the whole "Rebound" thing because this has been going on for longer than "omg we just broke up". But hey, play your cards how you see them, you put it out there, explain you understand your inconsiderate request but your diciplined enough to essentially over look those feelings to be that someone for him to talk too. Something corny like that.